Pregnancy

There was this report where the lady died while giving birth to a twin. It was such a tragedy, when one should be celebrating but instead death has struck. Sometimes I can't help blaming us guys for putting the lives of our loved ones in danger.

She will be the one who will suffer during the gestation period, carrying the baby inside her, putting up with all the stuffs, like morning sickness, swollen belly and body. It is not easy being pregnant. I can't imagine how it is like, nobody can unless having gone through it herself. But it is no childplay.

All this because of us guys wanting to have sex with them. Because of our sex drive, we are putting our partners in danger. Yes, it is not everyday that someone die while giving birth, but the danger is still there. This recent case shows that.

Our lives is always fill with uncertainties. Pregnancy is part of the uncertainties in the equation male-female relationship. A guy can only, no, it should be always, love the girl he has sex with, for she is the one who will carry part of him in her.

Gals are not toys or plaything, somebody you want to have fun with when you like it. There is a life at stake.

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I wonder how Suhaili is coping with her pregnancy. I want to ask her, but I probably will not get much answer from her, just "fine" maybe. Even though she don't want to be my friend, I still care for her. Like a real sister, I can't just drop my feeling by saying so. Don't ask me why, I can't answer. I know I will still think about how she is doing, long after I may not see her again.

Just like I had care for Serena. Even though it had been a long time, more than 20years, maybe? Not seeing or hearing from her doesn't mean I will care any less. It only makes me feel more frustrated not able to know what is happening.

Life is short. Why can't I have the friendship from those I care so much for?