SPG ... or not

Saw tabtv on CH5 for the first time yesterday. Subject for the night - sarong party girl. Frankly, SPG is nothing else but local girl wanting to have a good time with caucasian male. Whoever coined the phrase probably is jealous she can't hook any causcasian. Well, presumably it is a she, but if it is a he, probably he couldn't hook a local gal haha. Will you label a local girl wanting to have a good time with local male? Just because the skin color is different, and people look at them with distaste.

The show didn't highlight much, there was two brief cases of young chinese gals meeting white guys, one with the gal happily getting the guy, the other one ended losing her virginity (well, presumably she was a virgin before she met him) and not hearing from him again.

Their reasons for wanting a caucasian may be different, but don't the same local also have their reasons, whatever it may be, when they go after a guy. Only thing is the boyfriends they seek is not our local guys. We have no right to put a label on them, just because their catchs have a different skin color. Each person sees the world differently, and have his/her own preferences. So don't treat them as though they did something wrong. I think the people who treat others with disdain are probably jealous because others could get what they could not.

Tabtv should skip the interview part since it lacked the time, think it has less than 10mins slotted for it. It is irritating to see the participants get cut off when they have something to say. The same with any talkshows. If they think they don't have the time to let the participants voice their opinion, don't ask them, don't have it in the first place.

I have always try not to judge a person. I try to believe that there is always a reason, one that I am not aware of. I may not like that person, due to one reason or another, but I do not know him enough to judge him. Maybe he gets to talk to the person I like to get along with, but fail, and I am jealous of him. Still, I have no right to label him when I notice him showing his bad side. Everyone has his bad side! And I know I have too.

We have the choice of who we want to know, who we want as our friends, boyfriends, girlfriends and acquaintances. Whether we are successful or not, nobody should label us. We will label ourselves!